How to decide that life is always happening FOR you


Regardless of what’s happened to you in your life

There is a way to use it in your favour

Although it may be painful to even accept

There is always a way that we can not only move forward, but use the experience in some way, to benefit either ourselves or others,

Now we are not saying this is easy… It’s not,

But is it worth it?


It all comes down to one thing, a decision!

Which is exciting

Why is that exciting?

Because it gives us hope!

It gives us opportunity.

For instance…

Is life happening TO me or is it happening FOR me?

This is a decision which you have the power to make

Once you make the decision that life is happening for you,

You don’t need to wait for any sort of outside forces

You don’t need to wait for any kind of validation

You don’t need to wait for any qualifications

You don’t need to wait until you reach a certain age

You don’t need to wait until you’ve traveled to a certain amount of countries and seen a certain amount of things

You only need to take charge and make the decision

And believe that as of right now in this moment,

Life is happening FOR YOU and not to you.

And if you make that decision

I guarantee it has the power to make your entire perception of what is happening around you completely change

I love the word decision

I think people need to be making more firmer decisions over how they think, feel and where they’re going.

Make the decision and ask yourself right now…

How is life happening FOR you?

If you can create that mindset shift and you realize that life is happening for you and not to you

It becomes a catalyst for growth

And on some level, we all want growth, right?

Whether it’s personal growth, financial growth, growth within our relationship, with our freedom, with our fulfillment, our happiness…

Everyone wants growth in some way or another.

And making that mindset shift and change

Creating that decision, that life is happening for you.

And therefore you’re going to learn from the lessons that you’ve been given.

That becomes a catalyst for GROWTH.

If you want that growth

Start to make the decision

That life is happening for you and it’s all about a series of lessons

All you need to do is learn from them!

If you make that one simple little mindset shift,

And by the way, it can happen in a second that shift, that life changing decision,

You will inevitably start to experience more growth in whatever areas of your life you want to experience growth.

Become an expert at finding those things that enable you to be able to say,

“You know what? This isn’t a bad thing because this is happening FOR me and I’ll grow into an even better version of myself because of it”


This was taken directly from – The Coaching Masters Podcast – If you would like to hear the full episode where we dive deeper into the topic of ‘How Life Is Always Happening For You‘ – Click here to listen now!

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